I did something today that I hate and avoid at all costs. Something I hate so much that I haven’t done it in 2 years. I went clothes shopping. I even tried on clothes in the store! Normally, I buy the size I think I am, as well as a size bigger and a size smaller, and I take them home and try them all on, and take back what doesn’t fit. Today, I was brave enough to go to the dressing rooms and try on the clothes in the store.
On top of that, I haven’t worn pants in years. I only wear dresses and skirts because I feel like pants show off my fat. However, I bought a bike yesterday and I know it’s way easier to ride a bike in pants than a skirt, (or at least the floor length skirts I wear) so I bought some pants today. Not just pants, I bought skinny jeans. I can’t believe I did, but I did. Hopefully I will have the courage to actually wear them.
I think the bike idea is awesome. I hope you enjoy it.
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That’s so great! Congratulations!
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Fab – enjoy your new bike!
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oh my goodness! i have the same problem. i actually can’t even go into the store. for some reason i feel like the people in there are thinking “um, she should NOT be wearing our clothes. Ew.” I have actually been able to go shopping a little more though honestly if I do it, I have no energy to do anything else after. I guess it takes all my courage to do it. Congratulations on going and getting something that scares you to wear! Some people don’t get it, but it’s a huge deal and you should be really proud of yourself! I’m proud of you!
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Thank you so much! I am so nervous, but I’m going to try to wear them (so I can ride my bike) tomorrow. I’m so nervous already!
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i try to stay busy up until the point…and i avoid mirrors bc even if i do look good i know me and i’ll freak out. those are my tips but i’m working on it too! let us know how it goes!
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Will do! Thanks for the tips!
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Way to be brave and make yourself do things you don’t enjoy! That’s so hard! Much easier to do it the way you always have. Kudos for stepping outside of your comfort zone. 🙂
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Thank you so much!
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Congrats on the new ride and welcome to the two wheel club. Pick your route carefully, assume all car drivers are trying to kill you, and watch out for wet leaves (worse than ice!).
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Thanks for the tips!
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Hm, can’t help with the long skirts, but there’s a place out here that does “sport skirts” which are kind of shorts with skirts over them. But not like the skorts of our youth. They’re kinda neat. If you want I can try to see if they have a webpage. Also, you’re the exact opposite of me. I haven’t worn shorts since middle school (someone made fun of me for being so pale). And I haven’t worn a skirt since Preschool (one of the boys in my class looked up my dress). So it’s always jeans. If I had to wear shorts for sports I played, I had to focus obsessively on the sport. I prefer the flare or boot cut jeans myself. But this is good. You’ll enjoy the new cycling. Also, remember this most important fact: Ride WITH traffic, not AGAINST it, you are NOT a pedestrian. (Also, it’s technically illegal to ride on the sidewalk.)
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Freakkyyyy I went clothes shopping today too!!
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How’d it go?
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Forking difficult. I’m having a very very bad day. Ironically I need the clothes so it was kind of retail therapy and a TJMaxx! But I got more than I expected! But still really triggering. Like all the options in the smaller sizes and prettier clothes for girls with no chest ya know?
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Just this past spring I went clothes shopping. I almost walked out of a store because I got that look from the sales girl of “what the heck is she doing in here.” She seemed to be a little satisfied when I went to the men’s section and bought two button down shirts that were on sale. Obviously that made more sense because what would I be thinking trying to pull off any of the women’s looks.
It’s a huge step going to the store and trying things on. It’s not easy to be in the fitting rooms. It’s somehow exposing, even though it’s supposed to be very private. I always feel like I’m somehow on display. I hate it.
I also bought skinny jeans this past spring. Of course, none of them fit now, but that’s okay. I’m probably going to turn to long skirts and leggings under them for winter, just for the warmth of that kind of layering, but skinny jeans require a lot of body confidence. Just buying them is a huge step, even if you’re not sure you have the courage to wear them in public yet. It’s definitely a huge step and you should definitely give yourself full credit there!
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What is it with judgy salespeople?? I don’t get it.
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No idea, but you’d think that would get in the way of doing their job! They’re supposed to be there to help you. Actually, they really should be making you feel like everything is fantastic, that way you’ll buy more!
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Right? I’d be so much more likely to buy if I felt welcome and like I belonged there.
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Congrats on the victory!!
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